When we thought everything was supposed to be getting better, everything went wrong. We scrambled to fix and mend and find explanations, but nothing was working and our love was dying. Like flower petals that turn inward, shrivel and eventually collapse because the root has died. Our roots had died, and our marriage was showing … Continue reading #LeastQualified

Chalk and Criticism.

Parents, let's not mistake critical peer criticism for bullying. This morning my kids were coloring on their new chalk wall. They decided to collaborate and make a seascape. They divided the wall up into three sections so they each had their own place. I watched them collaborate, share ideas, encourage one and other and share … Continue reading Chalk and Criticism.

Oh My Heart.

I promised many of you that I would update you after this morning's Cardiology appointment. Not so great news first: I do really have Paroxysmal Atrial Fibrillation as well as Tachycardia. (Sometimes people can get heart flutters from things like drinking too much coffee and it's not really A-Fib.) I had an echo cardiogram today … Continue reading Oh My Heart.

Weird Writer Wears Wedding Dress.

I am weird. I connect deeply with weird characters. The quote underneath my name on my Facebook profile is currently, “I’m the village crazy lady. That’s my job.” – Gramma Tala, Moana. I love comedy because comedians get to do weird stuff and no one judges them. They do it, and people laugh. But if … Continue reading Weird Writer Wears Wedding Dress.

Ch-Ch-Ch-CHHHAANNNGESSS.. and Dinosaurs.

I've been thinking a lot lately about what comes next after you've started healing. I use the word started because as addicts and those who struggle with mental illness know, the struggle is lifelong. We never completely surrender to healing or health. Even when we’ve been sober for 20 years… or mentally stable for 30… … Continue reading Ch-Ch-Ch-CHHHAANNNGESSS.. and Dinosaurs.